Saturday, February 16, 2008

Burqa


I recently read Khaled Hosseini's book A Thousand Splendid Suns. It was incredible, on so many different levels. One thing that I've been thinking about, and this is a relatively tiny aspect of the book but for some reason it really stuck in my mind, is the burqa. Two women, the main characters of the story, are both required by their husband when they marry to don a burqa for the first time in their lives. In case you aren't sure, burqas are those long gowns (worn only in public) that cover an entire woman's body except for the eyes. The women have trouble walking at first, and feel the strange experience of their peripheral vision being obscured. Personally, I feel this is one of many harsh demands placed on women in a society that grossly undervalues and mistreats females. But here is the interesting thing: both women (and this is the author's direction, who is a male) somewhat like the burqa for the following reasons. It allows them to watch without being seen, they can stare without the normal uncomfortable social consequences, they have a measure of anonymity, and they had a feeling that their husband was protecting them. They felt a slight feeling of sacredness, as if their husband was keeping them pure because they were a special thing to him. The reason I find this strange and thought-provoking is because I think I might feel the same way if I were required to wear a burqa. I had never even thought about it before. I hate the idea of this and the many ways women are persecuted by Islamic extremists. But I can also see how if I were forced to wear a burqa, I would glean these same few redeeming qualities as the women in the story did. Like I said, this is a tiny aspect of the story. I took away far greater knowledge and sorrow about the lives of women suffering under the control and persecution of men.

3 comments:

Quad Squad! said...

I agree with you! Isn't it strange how you can find redeeming qualities in something you oppose so strongly!

Carolyn said...

hadn't thought about that!

Irene said...

becky! i loved this book! have you read his first one, the kite runner? both equally difficult to read imo. some food for thought...one of the mgrs at my part time job is a new muslim. he only converted two or three years ago. his wife wears a burqa, in fact i've seen women in burqas on occasion here in DE. he has his beard grown long (the fist length) and his pants look like high waters b/c they are not supposed to touch the ground. we've talked at length about our differing faith and religion. i would most certainly never describe him as an islamic extremist who persecutes his wife. they had already been married for years when he converted and it was her decision to follow suit as well as to don the burqa. i don't think i could do it especially having been able to walk and see and speak so freely my whole life. we've discussed many things and i've learned so much about islam (and i suspect he has, too about christianity) all b/c of these books.